As I was surfing and come acrossed a lot of blogs. I admired how many bloggers imagination of telling their stories, as you know I am not a journalist or writer but honestly I am not a good blogger either and my imagination sometimes just runs flats.

I blog of thoughts that crossed my mind, of experiences and of things or people that bothers me but sometimes my imagination is not as vocal as other bloggers are maybe. I am cautious of what I blog and of the names mentions as you can see, some of my family, relatives and friends knows my sites and I should be extra careful not to offend them even if it’s the truth.

I really admire people who has a wide range of imagination on how to tell their story. I am not so much about words or vocabulary, but rather interpret their stories and me being there when the story was made, unfold and told.

I am a hopeless romantic trap in the 21st century. I still loved the old ones of courtship and how women of the olden days dress up and how many pay higher respect for women, which we can still see today but seldom. How the houses were made, the transportation at that time, the dresses, the way everything was. I am much a Maria Clara of the 21st century. My kids even told me that I dressed too conservative for my age and looks like I am not a Mom but a old maid. Although it hurts coming from my kids but true enough, the truth hurts and so I reinvented myself a little bit less of, but still a Mom and a respected lady.

I do not believe in annulment or divorced or separation. I do believe that everything happens for a reason and it takes two tango and make things right. No one is above each one but we are of the same level but different experience and time of delivery. Many might raised their eyebrows and opinions be thrown but I welcome them with an open mind.

I do admire single parents, women or men who stood up for their right and freedom. I used know I was a struggling single parent and bread winner of my family before I met my partner. I do believe that every individual is unique and special.

Just a thought…..