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August 13, 2009 Carmela Solon 1 comment

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5 years after I finally got to watched the entire movie as I was with the characters during their filming of the movie. I was so touched and moved that such love can be found not just on the screen but also in real life.

As I was watching I have learned that never to give up hope for sometimes this is what keeps us going. Hope that one day the love of your life will be back, but then again on the contrary hope can also be the other way around of  good.

Never cheat your heart for it knows who you love, who yearn to be with and who makes you the happiest no matter who comes and go, what the price maybe paid or how happy you were at the moment. It’s not the moment that you need to be happy but the after the moment you got to think of. Will you be happy with the one you choose?

Love knows no boundaries and if you are really meant for each other you will be with each other no matter what the time and tide tells.

Love will always be patient and kind for people who are patient and kind for their love.

It’s better to love than not loved at all…..

Seeing Pink

The supposedly “surprise” baby shower went well over the weekend. Although, she knew part of it because someone spilled the beans, she was still ever grateful for to us for planning it and made it happened.

Everything was set from the location, invited guests, the time, the invites and even the giveaways for the baby shower.

She will be having a baby girl her 2nd child scheduled to be born on September 17, 2009 that is if the baby can wait for that long….

Invite&Giveaways -Joanne's

Here’s the invite and giveaways that I made for her. I cannot decide which giveaways to have so instead I had two of them. It was a blast.

Seeing the invite and giveaways made her blush and watery eyes. I am happy that although she knew half of what’s going on she did not expect to see the giveaways  and invite so pretty.

Baking & Wrapping

July 30, 2009 Carmela Solon 2 comments

Right after dinner my night was spent mostly in the kitchen baking brownies and cupcakes. We had some taste testing and it’s a big 2 thumbs up and tomorrow night after work will put the finishing touches.

Gifts are wrapped for the prizes and the giveaways are done. What’s next to do decorate the place and have the things need in place.

And it’s party time everyone!!!

Right Hair Cut

Curly summer hair

If your hair is…curly

Your Good Fortune: Bold, vivacious ringlets come naturally to you. While some of us struggle to inject our hairstyle with a bit of an edge, you make rebellious cool look easy.

Your Challenge: Like teenagers and kudzu, curls can be willful and take on a life of their own if you don’t set some boundaries.

Your Ideal Cut: A style that dusts the shoulders lets curly hair strike the perfect balance between wild and soft, explains hairstylist Sebastian Scolarici of New York City’s Serge Normant at John Frieda salon, who masterminded the cuts on these pages. (If you want to move more toward the wild side, go shorter.) Layers should be very long—no shorter than six inches—except for a few in front to frame the face. Sebastian cut our model’s hair dry so he could see how each snip affected the overall silhouette (a good idea with curly hair). “You don’t want to thin out the curls; you just want to shape them around the ends,” he said.

Steer Clear Of: Short layers. Especially if your hair is fine (like our model’s), they will make your curls spring up too much (boing!) and disrupt the shape of your style. And if a stylist takes out a razor: Run. The result will likely be frizz and split ends. Even if your overall style is a little loose, your ends should be scrupulously neat. Swimsuit, Eres Paris.

Your go-to product: A rich, moisturizing styling cream.

Your salon checklist:

  • Cut dry
  • Shoulder-grazing length
  • Long layers

Straight summer hair

If your hair is…fine and straight

Your Good Fortune: Frizz? What’s frizz?

Your Challenge: Without teasing or hot rollers or upside-down blow-drying (you know the maneuver), your hair can feel like it’s plastered to your head (and humidity doesn’t help).

Your Ideal Cut: A bob that’s angled slightly shorter in the back than in the front gives fine hair extra lift at the crown. Deep, sideswept bangs can also help create the illusion of heft (they’re most flattering if you have a thin or oval face). Another advantage to a shorter cut: It’s a lot easier to wash every day. If you have fine hair, you likely also have more hair follicles per square inch, which means more oil-causing sebaceous glands, which means roots that get greasy—and flat—without daily shampoos. And while you’re at the salon getting a new cut, you might want to consider a few highlights around your face. “Bleach causes the hair to swell up a bit, so it looks fuller,” says Sebastian.

Steer Clear Of: Too much length. “Once fine hair gets below the shoulders, it’s almost impossible for it to hold any style,” says Sebastian. And request layers only in moderation. A few long ones can add swing to your ends, but too many make fine hair look stringy. Dress, Temperley London.

Your go-to product: A lightweight volumizing spray.

Your salon checklist:

  • Slightly angled bob
  • Deep, sideswept bangs
  • Face-framing highlighs

Wavy summer hair

If your hair is…wavy

Your Good Fortune: You actually have the potential to wash and go…and look like you just stepped out of a beachside photo shoot. Your hair’s natural state is tousled, sexy, chicly relaxed—and humidity only makes it more so.

Your Challenge: Wavy hair can be a bit inconsistent: bending beautifully in one area, falling flat in another. And while steamy weather encourages the natural twists in your hair, it may also add some frizz.

Your Ideal Cut: Layers of varying lengths (starting about halfway between your crown and ends) encourage the shape of the waves and make the hair look fuller—but not frizzy. In spots where waves are flagging, shorter layers will inject them with more bounce. If hair is thick, like our model’s, your stylist can also thin it out a little at the very bottom—just the last inch or so.

Steer Clear Of: Razoring or serrated cutting (when a stylist slides the scissors down the hair shaft). Both can fray delicate waves and leave ends looking fried. And if you have finer hair, be wary of too many layers—you need enough weight to help your style hold its shape and resist poufing. Swimsuit, Lenny. Sunglasses, Daisy Fuentes. Necklace, Ten Thousand Things.

Your go-to product: A silicone serum.

Your salon checklist:

  • Layers from midlength to ends
  • Thinning, starting one inch from bottom
  • No razors or serrated cutting

Thick summer hair

If your hair is…thick and straight(-ish)

Your Good Fortune: You have a lot of hair—thick, lush, and full.

Your Challenge: You have a lot of hair—heavy and probably a bit coarse. As the humidity rises, it tends to expand, usually into a triangular silhouette, widening at the bottom.

Your Ideal Cut: Length helps keep a mass of hair from becoming overinflated—but you don’t have to grow your hair down your back: “A cut that falls at least to your collarbone has enough weight to give you the extra control you need,” says Sebastian. You also want long layers, starting about four inches above your ends; they’re key to keeping your hair from stacking into that pyramid shape. And Sebastian always uses thinning shears on the last two inches, to take some of the bulk out of this hair type.

Steer Clear Of: Blunt lines. They’ll make your hair look, and feel, even heavier. “You don’t want a cut that’s perfectly even at the ends,” says Sebastian. And while long layers are a must, short ones will make it more difficult to contain your hair’s fullness—the last thing you need is a shag. Sheer top, Zimmermann. Earrings, C. Greene. For details see Shop Guide.

Your go-to product: A light-hold spray gel.

Your salon checklist:

  • Collarbone length (or a bit longer)
  • Layers starting four inches above ends
  • Thinning from the bottom

Short shorts

June 25, 2009 Carmela Solon 1 comment

Woman wearing white shorts

DO indulge in summer whites.
Tailored shorts in crisp white have a way of making everything else—from a basic blouse to an old tee—look totally polished.

Woman wearing prints

DON’T wear head-to-toe prints.
While fashion fanatics might consider onesies cool this season, wearing patterned shorts and a matching top is another story entirely. Leave this jokey summertime look to the ice cream man.

Woman wearing a tank top and shorts

DO balance out a billowy top with straight-leg shorts.
Thigh-high shorts in dark, serious shades keep colorful A-line tops from looking like Granny’s muumuu. Love the black-and-yellow color combo!

Woman wearing panty shorts

DO avoid panty shorts at all times.
We’re big fans of boy-short underwear, but shorts that look like underwear are a definite Don’t. The ass-vertising only makes things worse.

Woman wearing denim cutoffs

DO bring back your denim cutoffs.
With their old-school vibe and slightly rebellious sense of cool, denim cutoffs are the white T-shirts of shorts—basic and easy and they go with almost everything. If you want to DIY them, take a pair of scissors to an old pair of jeans, cut them at the knee, then snip off inches, bit by bit, until you get the length you want.

Woman wearing a black dress

Just DON’T go too short.
Pockets are like panty lines: They should be totally invisible at all times. The white pocket triangles poking out under her cutoffs are a warning sign that the shorts are way too short.

Woman wearing long shorts

DO ease into sporty shorts.
Not into the micro-shorts? Worry not. Long board shorts look just as cool, especially when paired with a hip surfer-girl tee. To flatter hips and thighs, try a dark pair that fits close (but not too tight) to the body.

Woman wearing tall sandals

DO skip the knee-high shoes.
Wearing boots with shorts—or wacky, super-tall sandals like these—will only make your legs look squat. You also might get a few “What was she thinking?” looks.

Woman wearing balloon shorts

DO beware of balloon shorts.
Love her top and the color combo she’s got going on, but the thick, fitted cuff on her bloomerlike shorts make her hips seem wider than they are. Shorts that slightly taper out at the hem are friendlier to all body types.

Woman wearing colorful shorts

DON’T be afraid to have fun with color.
Once you have a few basic shorts in your wardrobe—black, tan and denim—test out a fun color, too. While not everyone can pull off her scrunched-down camo boots, her playful lemon-color cutoffs are totally crush-worthy.

Woman wearing shorts

DO invest in a pair of bright sporty shorts.
Still don’t think you can hit the town in a pair of neon shorts? Then save the super-bright hues for working out: A cool outfit in a pulse-raising color is a darn good reason to visit the gym.

Woman wearing shorts

DO remember that pants are not shorts.
While you might think nobody will be able to tell the difference between legit shorts and your rolled-up sweats, trust us, they can. Love the just-rolled-out-of-bed hair, but a getup like this one might make you look like you’re sleepwalking.