Posted in A whole lot, Being ME + Being YOU, L.O.V.E., Looking Back, Marriage, Married Life, Mars and Venus


We loved, we get hurt and still we loved. A cycle that goes round and round. How do we measurement true love? Of what it can give in or of what we can received? Is there such thing as how to correctly measure true love? Or the perfect relationship?

True comes in a lot of forms, shapes, sizes and in the most unexpected place, time and state we find them or they found us. Love definitely knows no boundaries for when we love, we love with all of our might and each effort it worth.

Although, sometimes we question is he/she worth it? Worth the fight, sacrifices, martyrdom, stupidity and whatever else you wanna call. YES!!! A 100 and more percent YES and why? because in each relationship you will see yourself grow and understand that it takes just being patience and being in love to build a relationship and to be with the one you love who loves you in return.

I have loved the most romantic man in my whole life but we parted ways and I found the most unromantic man ever but we stayed married for how many years. We learn to understand each other although he doesn’t shower me with flowers for he is allergic but instead he showers me with chocolates, great compliments for being a great Mom and a wife. We share our dreams together and patiently we grew and so did our relationship. Then, I learned that you do not to shower your loved one with flowers alone but with your undying love, trust, honesty, faithfulness and just be YOU.

This why I loved the most unromantic man I found because he is romantic in his own ways. That is why I love him and want to grow old with him.

Posted in Familia, My thoughts, Parenting, What's New?

Problem solver…

Being the eldest of a brood of four. People thinks that I can magically solved any problem. Sadly, to me it still does happened up to now and they ( I am referring to you people) who thinks that I am your problem solver, that any problem that arises when it is consulted to me it will be solved. Honestly, I am no better than anyone. I got problems of my own as well and with little patience, perseverance and with some luck somehow it does get resolved.

Last Tuesday, has been one crazy day for me. With all the endless crazy things going on at work and not to mention a friend asked to be their mediator to come up with an excellent solution to their problems. Both of them are friends and family which in my part is kinda hard to be their mediator. What else can I do? Well, for starters I can back out and let them find another mediator or a lawyer.(I didn’t even accept the offer but still it was handed to me) I am praying so hard that I will be able to give fair and the best judgement to their problems and hopefully we can come up with an excellent solution to their problem.

Let’s not forget of what we have chatted about as well. A whole of things to do with a lot of money and so little time. I just hope that you can wait patiently for all of it to come. I am trying my best here to make your wish come true. True enough it is kinda hard and takes a lot of time but it will come true one way or the other.

I will keep my word that it will be granted anytime soon. Like you all said I am your problem solver… 🙂