As we aged (gracefully) of course. We learned a lot of things and by aging gracefully doesn’t mean that you are right (at all times).
We learned our mistakes through life’s experience and we learned to correct them by experiencing it as well.
We learned to compromise for the better of each other and the people that surrounds us.
We learned to accept that the truth hurts no matter what and a lie is still a lie no matter what.
We learned to let go of things and accept the good and bad as they come along.
We learned to be a better person to make the people we love a much better person.
And a whole lot more we learned, changed, accommodated to make our world a much better place to live in and making us a much better individual but, by changing and accommodating others doesn’t mean that we are wrong even if we are right and doesn’t mean we are right even if we are wrong.
We just need to compromise and choose our words wisely so that the other person will understanding us much better when things are being discuss. Sometimes, because of the choice of words we use and the body language we are using even if it is for the better of the situation sometimes it doesn’t turn out to be what we wanted.
We need to step back, inhale, evaluate, exhale slowly and assess of what just happen. Life is really crazy and it even gets crazier at times.
We I am in a heated situation I simply excused myself, get up slowly and just walked away from the situation. (if outside my home or somebody else’s place).
When situation like these arises at home I simple get up and walked towards my bedroom and stay there until things cools down.
We cannot fight fire with fire. Someone has to calm down and assess the situation and discuss things later on. Sometimes there are the need to bend down and ask for forgiveness but that doesn’t mean you are wrong and they are right. It just means you are showing your respect towards the other person.
Sometimes showing respect can be very weird but it doesn’t make you less of a person. It just makes you a lot better than the others.